Totally forgot about this, and I want to type it out, because I know I'll forget about it in a few days. My ex didn't rape me on the typical 50/50 divorce split. Instead, we worked out a dollar amount I have to pay her. She was in town yesterday and I told her just to swing by and pick up her "payment" and she could sign for it. When I saw her, there were absolutely no feels of "love" or the past. It was more like seeing an old acquaintance. I asked her how she was doing and she said she was pretty DAMN happy. I still find it odd she chose to use the words "damn happy." I'm not going to dwell too much on that.
I think one reason that I don't have any feelings for her anymore is due to how at peace I am with myself. During our marriage, I always told her it must be nice to be "insert full name here." I said this because she really did not contribute anything of value to our relationship. I paid every major bill we had. She mainly made money (I use this term loosely) to pay bills that she caused. Now, I can say it's nice to be Shaun Roberts. I'm dating a girl who shares about every belief that I have about how a relationship should work. There HAS to be give and take. If you get treated like a king, then you should treat her like a queen in return. Everyone has their bad days that they aren't going to treat you like you want, but if you still keep treating them good, it'll roll right back to you very quick.
Someone also told me she changed her relationship status on facebook (the way everyone seems to announce anything anymore) to "in a relationship." It doesn't bother me a bit! I really hope she finds what she is looking for. There is someone for everyone, but we were just not for each other.
I really didn't want to do two blog postings today, but like I said, this encounter was didn't mean a thing to me and I know I'll forget about it.
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